6/11/11

Loose Ends

1) I seem to have come out of my funk. Still don't know what is going on with my kid, though, since they had to rerun a bunch of her bloodwork and it takes forever to get results. But since she is acting perfectly normal these days, it's hard to believe that something is wrong.

2) We are not filing a grievance against Lawyer A. I do think his conduct was both despicable and unethical. But filing a grievance against an attorney is a very serious, career-altering move. I discussed it with my partners and we decided that since his conduct was recorded on the record and the judge admonished him in open court that this matter had been handled. My client is already stressed by being involved in these proceedings that she is not a party to and has little interest in getting involved in another mess by filing a grievance.

3) I'm still slow and bored at work. I was at a CLE yesterday and ran into an old law school friend. She asked what I was doing and if I liked it--and my response was "I'm bored." I couldn't even bring myself to couch it or tell a little white lie (although I am a terrible liar, anyway.) And then, one of the points made at the CLE was that if you are discontent, or worse, unhappy, you need to make a change because you only have one life and you need to get the most out of it. And a corollary point was made that very few good things in life happen without risk. I am taking this advice to heart and trying to figure out what to do about it.

2 comments:

mominsanity said...

So, that othe lawyer must have failed PR 101 because it's a no brainer to go through the other attorney. AndI would have been upset about it too...I am sure that you thought long and hard about whether to file a PCC complaint also. Things like this make me so upset because it gives lawyers and the profession a bad name (not what you did but wht he did - it's so sketchy).

PT-LawMom said...

Could you take on some pro bono in your "spare" time? Do something non-legal? Find a hobby? Sometimes career enjoyment ebbs and flows, I think.

Glad your kid is doing better! I'm sure they'd call more urgently if preliminary results were showing anything or if they were super concerned.